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Road Trippin’: A Kid, And A Candy Shop

04.10.2013 by J. Doe // 2 Comments

No sooner do we arrive in Cannon Beach than The Child wants to leave. She wants to go to Seaside, she says; she wants to ride the bumper cars, and the tilt-a-whirl. So we go, getting a late start, and they are both as wonderful as we remember. Maybe a little more wonderful, because there are so many details I never saw before, or possibly just didn’t remember them.

Also, we’ve both gotten a lot better at steering the bumper cars.

Bumper Cars

We head back to Cannon Beach, and go looking for our favorite crab cake restaurant, but it’s gone. In its place is a Mexican restaurant which looks hopelessly out of place in the little beachy cottage: it’s not that you can’t do burritos in a beach town, but this place says come in, sit down, and listen to the traditional Mariachi band – and I’m on the Oregon Coast, with kites to fly and hikes to take. It just doesn’t work. We skip it – partly because of the Mariachi thing, but mostly out of spite because of the crabcake place that is no more – and instead head for a place in an old lodge made out of logs and river rocks.

It’s very pretty inside, yet they make possibly the worst French fries ever.

We vow to eat in more.

The next day, I get up, and sit quietly reading.  All morning. The sun comes for a brief visit; the clouds return. I decide I’d like to catch the weather while it’s still halfway decent, but The Child is still sleeping soundly. I make a simple breakfast of eggs, toast, and fresh strawberries, and serve it to her in bed around noon. The Child is thrilled to get breakfast in bed, and eats the bread but not the crusts, and then the strawberries, and after telling me that the eggs didn’t taste the same as eggs at home, she announces she’s ready to go.

We head for the beach, taking The Dog with us.

He is baffled by the beach – although he’s been here before, he clearly doesn’t remember it. He walks along, not too slowly, but also none too fast, stopping frequently to lift his snout into the breeze and sniff deeply. Sometimes he looks at me, rather perplexed by the whole thing.

He starts to limp a bit on one foot, so we turn around and take him back to the condo. The afternoon is slipping away, and there’s a yarn store in town that I really want to go to. Local Oregon yarns. The Child wants to walk on The Beach some more, but I nix the plan. I want yarn.

She sulks in the car.  I promise her a trip to the old-timey pink-striped candy store afterwards, which improves her mood, but only marginally.

At the yarn store, the child selects a craft kit within a minute, while I begin the lengthy decision making process involved in choosing yarn. I can’t decide. I circle the store twice. The Child is annoyed. I select two huge hanks of locally dyed yarn that will be good for a project I have in mind, and the shopkeeper offers to wind it for me. It’s a lot of yarn, and I know I will ruin it if I try to do it myself.

Great, I say.

It may take a while, she says.

The Child is livid.

I suggest perhaps we should go to the candy store and get some taffy while she winds. Everyone likes this idea, and if memory serves, taffy choosing takes at least as long as yarn winding. We head over.

There’s a photo booth set up outside, complete with props. I stop to check it out, while The Child goes to the door. Then she comes rushing back again. It’s a party, she says. It’s the store’s birthday party. I look in the window and notice that where the taffy machines usually are, there are huge ice buckets filled with bottles of wine, and tables laden with cheese.

Can we go in? I ask the woman at the door. We just want some taffy.

Of course, she says. Everyone is invited to the party.

We wait five minutes, and the doors open. We’re first on line, and everyone greets us.

The Child wanders off, then rushes back a moment later. Mommy, everything is free, she says.

I think, this can’t be right, so I walk up to a man behind the counter and inquire, hesitantly: I know this sounds silly, but my daughter says everything is free?

That’s right, he says. What would you like?

I’m a bit perplexed, so he continues, would you like to come behind the counter? You can pick out what you like.

I’m still thinking I must be missing something, but the man hands The Child a tissue paper and shows her how to scoop popcorn out of the machine. Then he shows us the gummy candy bins, and the chocolate cases.
The truffles.

The Child gleefully helps herself. Gummy strawberries are delicious, she says. Cheese popcorn is better than caramel corn. She is rushing about, tasting something from this bin, something from that one. I’ve never seen her eat so much, with so much gusto. A crowd starts to form on the wrong side of the counter, but everyone is polite, and happy, and no one has trouble getting the sweets they want. I sample a chili pepper truffle, because I don’t want a lot – just one memorable thing.

The Child finds some gift boxes behind the counter, and asks the man, can I fill one up and take it?

No, he says. But he’s still smiling: But, you can have whatever you like while you’re still in the store.

She’s finally had her fill, so we decide to head out. She takes a few more gummy strawberries, and I take a three pieces of taffy: Root Beer, Sour Apple, and Pomegranate. We go pick up my yarn, and then walk slowly back to our car, unwrapping candy as we go.

I feel like we are luckier than we used to be, I say.

We’re very lucky, says The Child.

Categories // All By Myself Tags // Oregon Coast, single parenting

Road Trippin’: Cannon Beach

04.09.2013 by J. Doe // Leave a Comment

The vacation budget is still not large, but unlike last year, I can at least schedule a vacation, plan a trip, without worrying that I may be forced to cancel it, or need the money for something else – mostly likely, paying for The Lawyer’s next vacation.

So, early in the year, I ask The Child, where do you want to go?

To Cannon Beach, she says unequivocally. We haven’t gone there for a really long time.

We used to go to Cannon Beach every other year, renting a beach house for a week with The Departed and his two children. Or at least, that was the official plan: we actually only went twice.

I originally discovered Cannon Beach when I lived in Portland, where The Foreigner and I lived when The Child was born. He took paragliding lessons not far from there, on the dunes of the Oregon Coast, and I liked to go and watch and sit in the sand and cool coastal breezes.

I’ve never been to Cannon Beach without one of my husbands, yet I don’t think of either of them when I think of it: I think of majestic Haystack Rock, beach walks in still morning fog, and fresh taffy from the pink and white striped candy store.

So, I rent a small condo for the three of us: Me, The Child, and The Dog.

We load up the car with what seems to be not enough stuff, but I don’t stress, though I feel like I should. I fire up the GPS as we hit the road, nervous about the five-hour drive, and I’m immediately pleased to discover it’s actually only a four-hour trip.

It seemed much longer in years past.

Categories // All By Myself Tags // Oregon Coast, single parenting

Dog Days: A Wagging Tail

03.29.2013 by J. Doe // 1 Comment

I’ve been waiting and preparing myself for what I know is coming with The Dog. He recovered more than I expected from his stroke last year, but he’s still very slow. I miss our long morning walks, I miss his excited wiggling when I walk in the door. I miss my happy boy.

He struggles up the stairs, more and more. He wants to be with me, so he won’t just stay downstairs, but often he only makes it about halfway up, and then I hear him, sliding back down. When I hear it in time, I rush out and help him with a little extra support from behind – just enough to make it to the top. Other times I just carry him up. He’s grateful either way.

Grateful isn’t quite the same as happy, though.

He starts having accidents in the house. The Child and I try to be more attentive about letting him out more often, but sometimes even that doesn’t help.

I can see it bothers him. He knows what he’s supposed to do, and seems a bit confused when it happens.

I mention this idly to the Vet when I take one of the cats in for a checkup.

We haven’t seen him since just after his stroke, she says. Maybe you should bring him in?

I think his heart is going; he has a funny cough that only happens when he’s lying down, and according to the internet, it’s a sign of congestive heart failure.

No, I say. There’s not really much to be done. Old age comes to us all.

That’s true, she says. But maybe we can make it a little easier for him?

I bring him in a few days later. It is as I feared: they want to run all sorts of tests, hundreds of dollars I don’t have. They want to check his blood and do an x-ray to check his heart. I panic a bit, and hesitate.

The Vet sees my worry. Maybe, she says, we can do it this way. Let’s do the blood work on him and see if anything pops up. She’s worried about his heart – the internet is correct about this thing, at least – but rather than do those tests, she says, I should just wait until he falls asleep and then time his breathing.

That night, I have lineage society ladies over for a meeting. The Dog walks into the middle of the room and pees on the carpet as they watch.

The Vet calls the next day. His blood tests are fine – absolutely nothing strange on them. I tell her about the timed breathing test and she says, Well, that’s really excellent. That’s … well, that’s just really, really good.

He is still peeing on the carpet, I say.

She tells me it probably hurts too much for him to move, so he doesn’t get up when he should and then it’s too late. Since we know he can tolerate it, she wants to get him on some medication. This will help a lot with the arthritis, she says.

They’re big horse pills, but The Dog eats them happily enough when I put them on a cracker with peanut butter.

I don’t give it a lot of thought. I guess it can’t hurt him, I think.

The next evening, I go to the butcher to buy a leg of lamb for a pre-Easter dinner, and I pick up a meaty bone for The Dog, who is very pleased to get it. He spends the evening lying next to the fireplace, gnawing contentedly.

The evening after that, The Child and I come home a bit late, loaded up with groceries. We hear The Dog barking as the garage door opens.

When we get into the house, he is bouncing around. He cannot contain his excitement. He races around the kitchen island, back and forth across the living room, then rushes up and looks at me gleefully.

He wiggles.

He doesn’t have a tail, so he has nothing to wag; my dog wiggles where other dogs wag.

He wiggles, and he doesn’t stop. He waits eagerly for me to take him for a walk, and so great is his excitement that I forget about the possibility that frozen peas will melt in the grocery bag and ruin the crackers they are surely packed next to. He wants to walk, he wants to romp, and I want to take him.

His pace is brisk for a few minutes, and then he slows down, but his enthusiasm is undimmed.

Things are never what I think they are, and though this usually causes me no end of difficulties, this time, I am pleased.

 

Categories // All By Myself, Dog Days Tags // pets

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