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Sad, Sad Tale of Woe

01.23.2012 by J. Doe // Leave a Comment

To begin at the beginning, as one is supposed to do: I separated from my husband of seven years a few months ago. He left abruptly – to say the least – packing his bag right in front of me, my daughter, and my father.

We’d had conflicting schedules that day, which resulted in my father and I spending the day at my daughter’s concert with one set of my friends, and The One Who Should Have Gotten Away spending the day with his daughter at a candy-making class, with another set of my friends. When we all regrouped at home, there was  a short argument,  which went something like this:

Me: “How was your day.”

Him: “Fine.”

Me: “Was so-and-so at the thing? How was she?”

Him: “Fine”

(Repeat with several additional questions and one-word responses).

(Lengthy, frosty pause.)

Me: “Well, the concert went well. Thanks for asking.”

Him: “I did ask.”

And then he started packing.

I’d had conversations like this before, where he insisted he’d said something that I was sure he was not. Lots of them.

In fact, there was a period of time where we had them daily: I guess I’m old-school, but I think when people enter the house, the other occupants should say hello and ask quaint questions like, “How was your day and/or traffic?”

After you do this a few times, though, two things happen:

  1. You stop attempting to have these conversations, because arguing is tiresome.
  2. You start wondering if maybe it really is you, not hearing things that the other person insists so adamantly that they have said. I’ve seen Gaslight; I know how this works.

But on that night in October, as He packed his bag, I looked at my father, who shook his head: No, he didn’t say a word. I looked at my daughter: No, he didn’t say a word.

And then we three watched him go.

 

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